Monday, October 27, 2025

Updates from October, 2025

 Had a birthday party for New Dad (who I'm not sure should be called New Dad anymore as he has an 11 year old. And should I still be talking about myself in the third person?). Here's some reflections on the party and the current state of things...   

Party was lots of fun. Started the day by opening presents in bad (family tradition), then went to Spo-Cha with son which was awesome as usual - ping pong, batting cages, volleyball, and a little video games. Season pass just ran out. Should get one next year. Calendar reminder - go!



Kid Updates

-Had a swim meet Sunday morning, day after my birthday. Didn't start until 9am but they want the kids there by 7am which makes no sense, but wife was willing to take him since she gets up early and it was the day after my birthday, which I may have drank a bit. Got there by 9am to be the announcer because it's with the YMCA and mostly volunteer run it seems, though I swear we pay over $100 a month to belong, so I'm not sure where that money goes... (Chlorine in the pool?)

-Kid still requests to "be DJ" in the car. Current playlist includes "Delirious" by Prince," "Soda Pop" in French, from KPOP Demon Hunters Soundtrack, "September" by Earth, Wind, and Fire, "When Doves Cry" by Prince. Recently, it had been Queen's "Don't Stop Me Now" every day to school. I mean, every day. And to be honest, I only got a little tired of it. Freddy Mercury, man, that guy had the pipes. (Though the lyric "I'm a sex machine, ready to reload..." explains why I hadn't heard it on the radio growing up...and why it's questionable to let your 11 yr old listen to it EVERY DAY)



New Dad Updates

-Started investing in stocks b/c of Andy, but not too much because I'm a wimp butI don't like to admit it nor write that word so I may go back and delete what I just wrote, but if you're reading this then I haven't...

-Been working out with Ryo for a few years now, and was described by my sister as "buff but just lose that belly" a few months back, which seems accurate. 

-Recently Hired A at work, taking a load off our day to day.

-Went to Rhode Island family trip. Great time. Competed in Cubing. Should update that blog. (Cubing Dad). Had a teen judge watch how slow my Skewb solve was and comment, "Are you here with your kid or something?" Funny stuff. Also, people were very consulatory when I didn't make the cutoff for Clock.  It's alright, kids, I don't base my whole identity on my solve...but it was sweet.

-Watched the second-longest world series game (Dodgers-Blue Jays, Game 3). Wife came downstairs toward the end, surprised I was still up watching it: "You're still watching this game? It's not even the last game." Sees the score. "Is the score the same? And you're still watching?" Lol. She apologized later, but I'm not sure she should have. It's a reasonable reaction.




Monday, January 27, 2025

11 Year Old - Plays DJ on the way to school

Driving to school, he often asks to play DJ. I hand him my phone in the back seat - though he's 5 ft 4, probably doesn't need the back seat right now.

Some recent tracks he plays off my phone:

Blitzkrieg Bop - The Ramones
The Passenger - Iggy Pop

Sunday, February 11, 2024

Quote - 10 years, 1 month

 "All a kid ever needs is some video games, a book, and a friend." -While chatting with his friend Sean on the phone and waiting to play Splatoon 3 with him. 

Tuesday, August 29, 2023

For the first time in forever...

 School day. Got up at 7 and made it down shortly after. Boy was already eating breakfast and turns to me and says, "You're up early...'For the first time, in forever...." singing that last part straight out of Frozen.


Monday, August 28, 2023

Super Band Members + Golfing

 Played 9 holes with the boy at the Whittier Narrow Mountain 9 course on Saturday morning. Well, technically we played the whole course.

Had a really good time. 

On the way to the course, the boy asked, "What if there was a band with the best members of other bands?"

me: Like a super group?

him: Yeah. 

me: Who would you pick?

him: The drummer from block party, Slash (GnR), Paul from the Beatles-

me: Paul from the Beatles?

him: On bass. He's a good bass player.

me: Alright. Who else?

him: And Taylor Swift singing.

me: That's a pretty good group.

...

Later, on the golf course, I mentioned granddad - because I was using granddad's clubs, and used to golf with him - and the boy said, "You miss granddad a lot, don't you." and I said, "Yeah, yeah I do," and it was hard to say without, well, crying. And then we played more golf.



Friday, August 18, 2023

Music - I call DJ

 On the way to school or anywhere, son often says, "I call DJ."

I hand him my phone and he chooses songs, mostly off of his playlist.

Recently this has been:

On the way to school:

Sweet Child of Mine

Hotel California

Take on Me

All Star by Smashmouth

He learned Patience on guitar, so the G n R makes sense.

Oh, sometimes he throws in Heart of Gold by Neil Young or Wild Horses by the Rolling Stones. Both great songs.

He's recently heard Vampire by Olivia Rodrigo, and likes it The clean version, that is.

What else... learning I Saw her Standing There by The Beatles on guitar. One time he asked me, "What does, 'You know what I mean,' mean in the lyrics, 'She was just 17, you know what I mean.' 

My answer to that was a lot of fumbling. I mean, it's really hard to explain, if you think about it.


Monday, June 26, 2023

Said recently - thru July 2023

 Boy: What are my talents?

Me: So many things. Reading, Some sports. Some video games. Some musical instruments. Learning things quickly, sticking with some things. 

Boy: What are your talents?

Me: Some people say Being funny.

Boy: No, that's not it. Wiggling your ears and raising one eyebrow at a time.

...

This morning, wanted to show me some chords he learned for the song Patience. Yes, the one by Guns N Roses. 

Showed me the D chord, and how he lifts his pinky. Corrected my form when I played it. "It looks like your hand is going to the side. Try up and down."

Then played Splatoon 3 on the Nintendo Switch nearly all morning while I did a shoulder workout and got ready for work.

---

Driving to Kung Fu camp (Summer, 2023)

Boy: I call DJ!

Me: Who's DJ and why are you calling them?

Boy: Different kind of "call" Dad.

Listening to Come Together by the beatles

Boy: He says "Shoot me" in the beginning

Me: Really?

Boy: It's so different when you can read the lyrics on the phone

Boy: Miley Cyrus didn't give Amazon her lyrics though, because one is wrong in Flowers. Let me play it for you.

Skips forward a few songs, then Sweet Child of Mine comes on.

Boy: Nevermind. Can't skip past this one - it's too good.

---

Late July

Today driving to Kung Fu camp, L is the DJ and it's now Brittany Spears' Womanizer, followed by Sweet Child of Mine, and finally Here Comes the Sun by the Beatles.

On Brittany

Boy: I love this song

Me: Brittany Spears has kind of a deep voice. I mean, it's deeper than yours. (Why did I say this? No idea.)

Boy: That's because I haven't hit puberty yet, Dad.


Thursday, April 13, 2023

Things Said, Done, 9 years, 3 months or so

On the mornings our way to spring break basketball camp the son demands to be DJ (I call him "DJ Dibs"). In this case he plays two songs:

1. Eye of the Tiger - Survivor

2. Intergalactic - Beastie Boys


Watched Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves in the movie theater. Took a break during the movie to go to the bathroom. At the urinal I asked the son how he liked it:

Him: "Good, except for all the talking parts."


Driving home from a school event (he's in 3rd grade) where he demonstrated a robot and Scratch computer:

"Dad, do teachers make a lot of money? Because their job seems important."

Me: They do alright. Principals make more though.

Him: Really? Why?

Me: That's just how school administration works. They oversee things, have advanced degrees, and make more money.




Wednesday, January 11, 2023

The Best (and Worst) Books I Read in 2022 - A List

 In Other Words, ALL 48 Books I Read in 2022, Ranked by How Much I Liked Them or Can Remember Them, Which May or May Not Be Related

Here's my annual list of every book I've read in 2022, and yes, most of them were audiobooks, and yes, listening to audiobooks counts as reading. This is a debate I've been having with my wife for years, which was finally resolved this year when I asked a librarian and she said, "Yes, it most definitely counts. There's been studies that show the same part of your brain is activated when listening to books or reading them with your eyes."

So, at least one argument won in 2022. It was a good year.

The Best Books I Read in 2022 (From best to worst. Highly recommend any book in the top 30, or any book with a description that sounds good to you.)

1. John Henry Days - Colson Whitehead

In this biting novel a jaded group of New York journalists cover a "John Henry Days" event in West Virginia. Cultures clash and the cynical nature of professional writers is on full display. It's delicious.  

2. The Nineties - Chuck Klosterman

A beautiful, funny, and enlightening nostalgic road trip into the popular culture of the decade that shaped folks like me - and probably you, if you're reading this.

3. The Four Tendencies - Gretchen Rubin

Are you an Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel? This self-help book may sound cheesy, but Rubin, a veteran of light non-fiction books like The Happiness Project, seems to have stumbled upon something that is - dare I say - somewhat profound - narrowing people into these four personality types may actually helps us all get along. At the very least, it has helped me become less judgmental and altered the way I see my own motivations. Seriously.

4. The Other Black Girl - Zakiya Dalila Harris

A mysterious, subversive novel about the complexities of modern day racism, microaggressions, and "fitting in" as a Black woman in the white publishing world. If that weren't enough, it's also such a page-turning horror/sci-fi thriller that you might not notice any of those things I mentioned.

5. 4000 Weeks: Time Management for Mortals - Oliver Burkeman

4000 weeks is the amount of time in the average lifetime. Yes, that's it. This sly book explains whey that's' both depressing and relieving - basically, we should feel lucky for the time we have, and yet, realize that we won't be able to do everything - not even close. And that's OK. Really.

6. How to Be Perfect: The Correct Answer to Every Moral Question - Michael Schur

A humorous and thorough guide to moral philosophy and how it can apply to our daily lives by the creator of The Good Place (and Parks and Recreation, and Brooklyn Nine-Nine). Schur did extensive research on moral philosophy for The Good Place, then wrote this book. The audiobook is read by the cast of the show - I highly recommend it. Plus, listening is reading.

7. The United States of Beer: The True Tale of How Beer Conquered America, From B.C. to Budweiser and Beyond - Dane Huckelbridge

One of the best histories of beer and honestly, one of the best general United States History book I've ever read. No, seriously, Huckelbridge frames US history around a beverage, and is able to intertwine many major events, economic shifts, the impact of natural disasters and urbanization in a fun, light way the makes you appreciate how food and beverage is tied to our American heritage, and makes you want to drink a good beer...or three.

8. Alright, Alright, Alright: The Oral History of Richard Linklater's Dazed and Confused - Melissa Maerz 

"Are you cool, man?" After this 400 page book of interviews, you'll know pretty much everything about Dazed and Confused. And want to watch it again (and every year), and want to pass this book on.  If you're cool.

9. Happy-Go-Lucky - David Sedaris

Yes, I read everything Sedaris comes out with, and so should you. Sedaris's newest book is solid, with pieces on his father's death and the pandemic, and other serious topics he somehow makes both humorous and touching.

10. The Circle - Dave Eggers

Feels like 1984 meets Minority Report meets The Social Network in this indictment of social media, the tech industry, the expansion of cameras, facial recognition, and the loss of privacy, all cleverly wrapped up in an intense thriller.

11. Rodham - Curtis Sittenfeld

In this alternative history, what if Hillary had NOT married Bill, and instead lead a successful, single career of her own? The answer: many good things, including embracing her Midwest background and speaking more candidly. The author seems to channel the thoughts of people like Hillary and Bill, thoughts they'd never admit. "Do you know how easy it would be just to be rich and get out of the public eye? We're actually trying to do some good here." Elite politicians don't say stuff like that in public in real life, but damn if that doesn't explain how so many of them act. 

12. Wow, No Thank You.: Essays - Samantha Irby

Irby is basically David Sedaris if he were a self-described "overweight," bisexual, Black woman. They both write extremely humorous essays that will unexpectedly tug your heartstrings and challenge your own notions of what is normal, acceptable, and what it is to be human.

13. San Fransicko: Why Progressives Ruin Cities - Michael Shellenberger

An overly-provocative title for a reasonable examination of homelessness. A friend of mine challenged me to read a few books this year that were the polar opposite of my regular political viewpoint, and this was one of them. Shellenberger's take on homelessness - that it should be addressed as an addiction and mental health crisis first instead of a housing crisis - comes across as both rational and compassionate. At the very least, we can all be more open to alternative solutions from any side of the aisle when it comes to systemic issues such as helping those living on our streets. 

14. Dickens and Prince: A Particular Kind of Genius - Nick Hornby

With his trademark wit and style, the author of About a Boy and High Fidelity lays out the extreme similarities between two seemingly very different artists: Charles Dickens and the artist known as Prince. Hornby seems to truly love both of them, or at least, knows a ton about each one, including all of their (published) works. Finally, I have to say this: Wow, Prince made a lot of music. I mean, a lot.

15. Ghost - Jason Reynolds

Reynolds is one of the best writers around. Yes, he writes YA. So what if he writes YA? If this tale of a kid on his first track team - and learning how to fit in - doesn't move you, you may not be alive.

16. Apex Hides the Hurt - Colson Whitehead

A man who specializes in "naming" things for companies is sent to a town to give it a new name. In this meditation on the power of names, Whitehead's setup is great, and he intertwines forces that make up our modern society all in a small town - a powerful tech tycoon, a checkered racial past and the white "old-guard." Yet with a book leading up to the naming of one place, the results feel unsatisfying, no matter what possible name he comes up with. Maybe that's the point?

17. The Power of Writing it Down - Allison Fallon

We're all writers, and we should all do it...or at least, write journal entries. Fallon uses science and personal stories to back this up, and man, is she convincing.

18. The Long Fall - Walter Mosley

Mosley, in top form, sets this modern-day detective fiction in New York City, introducing Black private investigator Leonid McGill, who walks the fine line between doing what is legal and what is right, searching for that morality that lives somewhere in the grey areas.

19. Flash Boys: A Wall Street Revolt - Michael Lewis

High frequency trading has essentially destroyed the stock market, and yet, because people are still making money, no one stopped it until Canadian banker Brad Katsuyama decided to ask questions. Lewis brings that expertise in numbers that made Moneyball and The Big Short so compelling.

20. A Perfect Mess: The Hidden Benefits of Disorder--How Crammed Closets, Cluttered Offices, and On-the-Fly Planning Make the World a Better Place - David H. Freedman and Eric Abrahamson

Argues for the benefits of being a little messy, or at least considering the idea the some messes are actually helpful to us, and constant organizing can be harmful in its own right. Might be a little BS, but I'm totally on board with this.

21. Sag Harbor - Colson Whitehead

A meditation painting youthful summers in Sag Harbor, where the author and other Black kids would go to relax and grow up and return with their kids.

22. Department of Speculation - Jenny Offill

Poetic, humorous, and heartbreaking chronical of the first years of marriage, parenting, and her husband's infidelity.

23. And Sometimes I Wonder About You - Walter Mosley

Another detective novel from Mosley - modern and sexy and just a damn fun read. 

24. How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide - Crystal Marie Fleming

Though it doesn't quite live up to its title - veering into memoir and racial theory instead of outlining how to literally "be less stupid about race" - Fleming's book is nonetheless an insightful and engaging antiracism guide.

25. Nice Racism: How Progressive White People Perpetuate Racial Harm - Robin DiAngelo

Famed white antiracism author DiAngelo points out that some of the most crucial work white people need to do to fight racism is the the work within ourselves. Especially attacks so-called "progressive" white people to do more than performative racial work.

26. The Last Lecture - Randy Pausch

Based on his actual "last lecture," Pausch cranks out a quick memoir in his last few months on Earth and disposes some wisdom, some humor, and mostly advice to "follow your childhood dreams."

27. Well, That Escalated Quickly: Memoirs and Mistakes of an Accidental Activist - Franchesca Ramsey 

Memoir on how Ramsey came to prominence as a Youtube creator, internet show host, eventual activist, and constant recipient of a barrage of online hateful comments. Shows how awful the online world can be for, well, everyone. If you didn't want to get rid of your social media accounts before this book, it's guaranteed you will after you finish it.

28. High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out - Amanda Ripley

Ripley makes the case for truly listeningto ine another and realizing all issues only have more than two sides?

29. Cinnamon Kiss - Walter Mosley

Am I a huge Walter Mosley fan? Yes. And you should be too, if you like detective fiction. This Easy Rawlins novel - like Devil in a Blue Dress has the lead detective tromping through 1960s San Francisco and LA, with all the usual obstacles - tantalizing suspects, strange rich benefactors, and ex-Nazis.

30. An Abolitionist's Handbook: 12 Steps to Changing Yourself and the World - Patrice Cullors

Cullers lays out the problems with organizing, and the challenge to stay in the movement.

31. Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know - Adam Grant

Psychologist explains how to open our mind to opposing views, and not hold on to our own beliefs so tightly because they just might be wrong. 

32. Patina - Jason Reynolds

Second book in the "Track" series from Reynolds. Not as good off the starting line as Ghost, but once Patina gets going, it's another heartwarming YA tale that deals with family, growing up, race, and so much more.

33. Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life - Susan David

Being flexible in our thinking helps a lot. Seems like all the nonfiction books I'm reading this year have this general thing. I'll consider it a sign. Or I won't, because I'm flexible.

34. The Undoing Project - Michael Lewis

If you believe A is better than B, and B is better than C, you should believe A is better than C, right? Nope. The author of Moneyball tackles the biographies of two Israeli psychologists, their life stories, the ups and downs and eventually dissolution of their partnership, and how their theories about the irrational actions of individuals have influenced multiple disciplines...and contradicted much of what Moneyball was all about. 

35. Counting Descent - Clint Smith

Sharp collection of poems by Smith, who wrote the best book I read last year (How the Word is Passed)

36. Freedom is a Constant Struggle - Angela Y. Davis

Series of lectures given by Angela Davis linking struggles in Palestine with the U.S., and reflecting on what makes a "terrorist." Intellectual and enlightening, if not a bit repetitive as many speeches cover the same material.

37. Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind - Judson Brewer

Turns out I read a few self-help books this year. In this one, Dr. Brewer examines what makes us anxious and what we can do about it. Some of this is useful, some is theoretical, but overall, it's all interesting.

38. How to Argue With a Racist: What Our Genes Do (and Don't) Say About Human Difference - Adam Rutherford

I was extremely excited by the title only to be a bit let down. This is a not a book about arguments, but actually a geneticist explaining how genes have little if nothing to do with the creation of racial categories or how we see race today. 

39. Obama's BlackBerry - Kasper Hauser

Cute, quick, humor read: Fictitious messages that might have been on Obama's phone. Written before the Trump era, with jokes about Joe Biden being a slacker, Bill Clinton being a womanizer, and Obama getting revenge at Hillary for their grueling primary by having her fly coach as Secretary of State. So, yeah, some fun stuff...from a different era.

40. Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer - Barbara Ehrenreich

From lauded sociologist and trained biological science professor Ehrenreich, I thought this would be a condemnation of over-testing in the medical community, and overpromises in the fitness community, and in a way it is, and in another way it's a bit of a rambling book showing that science is indeed complicated.

41. The Colossus of New York - Colson Whitehead

Odd, poetry-like book capturing more of the feeling of different aspects of New York City with short lines about things we might think or hear. My least-favorite Whitehead book, and with this, yes, I've read them all. Back pats are welcome.

42. Happier at Home - Gretchen Rubin

Follow up to her far more intriguing The Happiness Project, Rubin dishes on how to make your home a happier place. And...it's kinda interesting? I'm always intrigued by self-help books, but this one was all over the place.

43. Poke the Box- Seth Godin

Short and quick motivational read reminding us to try new things in business, like, all the time..

44. Woke Racism - John McWhorter

Another book recommended by a friend to challenge my politics, this one was far less effective than San Fransicko. And yet, I ended up agreeing with a lot of what McWhorter argues. (Here's a little more, in case my friend reads this.) 

Marks against it for lengthy straw-man attacks on a broad "woke" culture. Maybe because I'm not in the media or academia, but I don't encounter this type of thinking, and so need evidence of its pervasiveness. McWhorter attacks what seems like a very narrowly conceptualized, homogenous group of liberals that allegedly control most of media and politics, and yet offers no real description or evidence of the existence of this group. 

On the plus side, McWhorter offers some interesting ideas on how to tackle racism: Essentially, it's useless to spend time renaming schools and roads, and we should instead end the War on Drugs, and concentrate on teaching kids how to read above all else by using phonics (he's a Linguistics Professor, after all). He also champions vocational schools, like a lot of educational reformers. Strangely, he doesn't mention Booker T Washington, because this platform is nearly identical to one that Washington proposed 120 years ago. 

While McWhorter's theories aren't bad, but they're not new either, and make an odd fit with his virulent attack on "wokeness." Sure, increase vocational schools along with everything else...but how do you prevent racism to not immediatly associate those schools for all non-white people? And what exactly is wrong with trying to make the world a little less racist? 

45. Raymond Chandler Speaks - Raymond Chandler

Collection of letters from one of the masters of detective fiction. Some insight into writing, Hollywood in the 1940s, and other curiosities probably only hard-core Chandler fans like myself would enjoy. And so I definitely enjoyed it, but it's not for everyone.

46. Letters to My White Male Friends - Dax-Devlon Ross

More a short explanation of the urgency and totality of today's racism than "letters," Ross makes an thorough case for the weakness in half-measures to cure racism, and good intentions not followed through, especially when it comes to corporate American culture and non-profit organizations.

47. Still Just a Geek - Wil Wheaton

This is Wheaton’s original memoir (Just a Geek) from 20 years ago with footnotes and comments on where he went wrong, including calling himself out on homophobia and sexism. Intriguing idea, and i enjoyed it fir a while, but after 200 pages it got a little repetitive, and it's very dense - like reading two books at once. Actually, it's exactly like reading two books at once.

48. A Visit from the Goon Squad - Jennifer Egan

Picked up this book due to its critical acclaim, and maybe my expectations were too high, or maybe it was lack of interest in the characters, but I couldn't even get through 100 pages of this book about callous, careless people in the music industry

And...that's it!

Disagree? Curious? Recommendations for this year? You probably know how to reach me.

-E


Tuesday, July 26, 2022

Things Said - 8 yrs, 6 months

The boy is fond of saying:

"Lets...go......!!!"  (Sounds like, "Lesssss Goooooo")

"That's what you get." (Not nice, but somehow funny each time)

Monday, August 23, 2021

Things, 7 yrs, 7 months - first soccer game, and a little more

 7 year, 7 months birthday was yesterday, but who's counting (remember when we counted by months? ha!)

Kid is in soccer now, and I'm the coach. He had his first game on Saturday. 

8/21/21 - First soccer game

Score 3-3

The Kid scored 2 goals!

We were down 0-3 at halftime, but then the boy turned it on the second half and led us to a tie!

After he scored the first goal, he ran back and gave me a high five - and a parent snapped a photo of it. It's perhaps, the best photo I've ever seen in my life - the kid is so happy. 

You can't see my face in the photo, but if you could, you'd see that I too, was happy, but mostly, relived, that at least we would not get shut out.

AND LATER

The other day at baseball clinic he was hitting well and told the guys running the clinic - "It feels good when you hit it." 

That's true, and something we don't often express, but really, that about sums up most sports. Feels good when you hit something or kick something, or throw something in a basket. Seroiusly.



Thursday, April 22, 2021

Things - 7 years, 3 months

A few notable things about the boy:

-Likes to say: "Heyyyyyyyyyyyyy" when he knows I'm sarcastic or joking.

-For his 1st grade (Zoom) class, wrote a list of reasons a story wasn't real. Included: "Because popcorn blizzards are not a thing."

-Listed his favorite things as:

1. Video Games

2. Mom and Dad 

Upon spotting Grandma in the room, adds...

3. Family

4. Watermelon 

Later says, "Mom and Dad and family should probably be at the top of that list. But do you know what my favorite thing to do is?"

Me: Play video games?

Him: No. Eat watermelon.




Thursday, March 25, 2021

First School Board Meeting

 March 25th, 2021

Spoke in front (via Zoom) of the school board for the first time, to urge the schools to reopen. Turns out, all the school districts around us are reopening.

Boy and wife watched.

Boy whispered to wife as I was speaking: "When he's done, lets clap for him."

And they did.

Monday, August 10, 2020

Coronavirus - 5 months in

 We used to be worried about toilet paper. Now we're just wondering what the new normal is going to be.

It takes a while to establish norms, and I think that's the period we're entering. There's talk that this virus isn't going to go away - there was that talk at the beginning, which seems absurd - and that's starting to sound like the most likely scenario. So, we're going to have to create some new norms, for social interactions, for shopping, for employment, for exercise, for a lot of things. 

Right now, there's so much up in the air. 160,000+ deaths, and I was thinking that 60K would be a catastrophic event. Ha. Now we're not even thinking about the numbers, we're just thinking yeah, a lot of people are dying, but it's not us or people we know, but let's not say that too loudly because the next thing you know it will be us and the people we know and I have a sore throat tonight, and I'm serious.


Milestones - 6 years, six months

 I mean, we don't really count in months anymore. The kid is 6...and change.

Milestones

Today

-Made a peanut butter and jelly sandwich by himself, without telling anyone he was going to do it

This year

-Goes poo by himself - wipes and everything, though were not sure how well. 

-Plays The Entertainer on Piano

-Learns borrowing (Subtraction)

-Learns a lot of Chinese due to his immersion class, but now that that's over because of the virus, who knows how much he'll learn...

And he swims underwater now, though he doesn't swim as well as when he had regular lessons at the YMCA...and will the YMCA ever have lessons again?  Who knows.

-ND


Friday, July 10, 2020

Kid Sayings - gas stations

Today (July 10, 2020 - Kid is 6 years, 5 months old)

Just went to a gas station. He stayed in the car. Really didn't think it was much, but it did delay our 10 minute drive to his grandparents' house.

I hop back in the car. Start to drive.

Me: See. That was fast. Fast gas.
Kid: I hate gas stations.
Me: Ahh. Ha. That's a little dramatic.
Kid: Gas stations make your life longer.
Me: Ha.
Kid: All I want for my birthday is a Nintendo Switch, and to never have to go to gas stations again.
Me: Alright, alright, I get it...



Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Coronavirus - 1 Week In

How different a few weeks make...

I feel like I should be keeping track of some of the things that are happening, perhaps just for my own perspective, or history, or whatever you want to call it.

It's Tuesday.   Last Thursday, Governor Newsom gave at stay-at-home order, and ordered all non-essential businesses to close.

But, here we are at work, with some people working from home. We're a very small business, so we were already spread out, and now even more so.  Most of South El Monte seems to be operating as usual, so we're not sure how the wholesale and shipping businesses are doing, or how any law applies to them.  I assume that people still need stores stocked, so the essential businesses that are open, like grocery stores - also need the suppliers to be open.  This is no where in any official literature...

We're bringing the boy to work, and since he's six now, we're developing a curriculum for him.  He loves learning Chinese, and also digs math and even reading.  Thank god.

Of course, he also goes on the iPad and laptop a lot.

This week I'm developing a plan for him so that we keep track of all the worksheets he does, and can earn rewards for certain amounts.. Like say, he does 100 worksheets, gets a video game.  I mentioned that if he does enough, we'll buy him the next video game system in the Nintendo family (which would be the GameCube.  We started with NES, then SNES, and he's currently on N64, obsessed with Super Smash Bros.) 

Not exactly sure why we continue on this path of video games, but we do.

Wine.com changed their slogan to Alcohol, Delivered.  Or maybe it has always been that, and they're just advertising now?

Wife started giving us haircuts, because we're not about to go to the barbershop / salon.

Started a garden on the side yard.  Tomatoes are coming... in like, two months.

Right now, no one knows what's going to happen in a few days or a few weeks.  All we know for certain right now is that traffic is really light.

-ND



Saturday, January 18, 2020

The Best Books I Read (or Reread) in 2019

The Best Books I Read (or Reread) in 2019

This year I read a mix of celebrity memoirs, parenting guides, business books, classic literature, poker strategies, essay collections by nerd/actor Wil Wheaton, and novels about slavery the incorporated magical realism.

If 46 books seems like a lot, like, maybe you're thinking a neglected my job or parenting duties (or both) let me just say, most of these were audio books, consumed while driving or doing chores around the house.

My wife says audio books don't count, since you listen to them instead of reading them with your eyes. But, the LA Public Library has a program for kids to read 100 books before they get to Kindergarten....and by "read" they mean "books read to them" because 99% of preschoolers can't read. In other words, WHO ARE WE TO ARGUE WITH LIBRARIANS!?!  AUDIO BOOKS COUNT!

Seriously, audio books are amazing. If you live in LA County, get a free app called Libby through the any branch of the LA County Library and you can listen all of the audio books on this list FOR FREE as well as tens of thousands of others...

What follows is a title-author list of books read in 2019 ranked from BEST to "I can't read any more of this..." followed by a slightly more detailed explanation behind these choices.  I highly recommend the top 10, somewhat recommend books ranked 11-25, and the books further down on the list, well, they're still better than 98% of all podcasts I've listened to.  Seriously.

Enjoy! And get Libby already.  Seriously.  -ND

1. 1984 - George Orwell
Literature / Fiction - Audio / Libby - Reread

It's been 20 years since I read this, and still can't believe how good it is.  Really a treatise on how the use of language controls and shapes our society disguised as a thrilling science fiction book, 1984 is profound and never more relevant in 2020.

2. The Great Gatsby - F. Scott Fitzgerald
Literature / Fiction - Used - Reread

Gatsby used to be my favorite book, but this is the first time reading it since I've become a dad. And well, most of what they do in here seems trivial and goddamn silly.  It's still poetic and a sharply critical of the upper classes, but really, some dude expects that he can just swoop in after being gone for 6 years and expect a mom to leave her husband and kids? Really? Daisy should have just say, "That was six years ago, man, I've got kids now! Move on, gangster! (Spoiler: Gatsby is kind of a gangster)"

3. Kindred - Octavia Butler
Literature / Fiction - Library

Finally read this classic sci-fi / historical, bent-reality book. Frighteningly vivid, Butler captures how jarring it might be for anyone from the present to experience the Antebellum era.

4. Ready Player One - Ernest Cline
Literature / Fiction - Audio / Libby - Reread

Third read, first time as an audio book. I really can't get enough of this love-letter to 80's nerd culture. Read with just the right amount of emotion by actor Wil Wheaton, who's real-life persona exists in this future dystopia as an old uber-geek, and well, if you understand why that may be, you'll probably love this book.

5. The Power - Naomi Alderman
Literature / Fiction - Audio / Libby

What if women suddenly had electrical power in their fingertips?  Would there be a dramatic shift in power between the sexes?  Alderman takes this premise and goes so many places, you begin to question pretty much everything about gender relations in the world we live in.

6. The Underground Railroad - Colson Whitehead
Literature / Fiction - Audio / Libby

If you're going to read only one fictional account of slavery with magical realism this year, read Kindred.  But if you're up for another, check out The Underground Railroad. Well written, intimate, and brutal. But the sci-fi hook of an actual railroad existing underground felt more distracting than magical. A minor distraction though, for a great book.

7. A Man Called Ove - Fredrik Bachman
Literature / Fiction - Audio / Libby

I cried at least twice (four times) listening to this portrait of a strange curmudgeon in small-town Sweden. The humor sucked me in, but the cheesy, heart-warming story somehow kept me engaged throughout.

8. Blood, Sweat, and Pixels - Jason Schreier
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

For lovers of video games and who also share a fascination with the business world.  Schreier dives deep into what it takes to create video games in the modern age.  Each chapter is a detailed case-study of the creation of a popular video game, and the madness behind the creative and business decisions that have to be made to keep these games from self-destruction.  And it's so much madness.

9. Lessons from Lucy - Dave Barry
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby

So many corny jokes - and a lot of good ones, too - mask Barry's excellent writing in this direct and warm memoir. The epilogue is shockingly heartfelt and emotional - especially when you hear Barry himself read it on the audio book - and propels this casual ode to his dog and middle age to one of the most sincere life-guidance books I've ever read.

10. Calypso - David Sedaris
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby

Read by the author, including a number of chapters read in front of a live audience.  I'm a huge Sedaris fan, and this recent work - focusing mainly on the current state of his family - does not disappoint.

11. Native Son - Richard Wright
Literature / Fiction - Used

I've wanted to read this classic for years, and expected a meditative, racial discourse similar to Invisible Man, since they are often mentioned together. Well, Native Son is quite different - a dark, violent exploration of a murder, police pursuits, and a lengthy courtroom drama featuring communist ideas, with early 20th century race relations as a general theme running throughout. I'm not even sure if I liked it, but, I couldn't put it down, and won't forget it any time soon.

12. Yes Please - Amy Poehler
Biography / Humor - Audio / Libby

Perhaps the written book isn't as good, but Poehler's own reading of her work is phenomenal - hysterical and peppered with touching emotion.

13. The Water Dancer - Ta-Nehisi Coates
Literature / Fiction - New

Some really beautiful patches, but tough to finish as it just meanders through the middle. After Kindred and The Underground Railroad, it's possible I may have been tired of the slavery with magical realism genre. But, I found book reviewers that agreed, so how wrong could I be? While still a good book worth a read, though I'm not sure you need to get through all 400 pages.

14. Creativity, Inc. - Ed Catmull & Amy Wallace
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

The amazing history of Pixar, and how Steve Jobs wasn't such as bad guy after all. If you're into business histories and/or curious about Pixar's development, check it out.

15. Daring Greatly - Brené Brown
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

Sure, Brown is a little corny, but she's also somehow inspiring and motivational.  This one is about getting out there, trying and failing, or as she says, "get into the arena and fail if need be."  Some parenting advice, too - pairs well with The Gift of Failure.  Seriously.

16. The Dharma Bums - Jack Kerouac  
Literature / Fiction - Used 

It's been a long time since I read Kerouac and I missed the rambling, rumbling, experimental prose - and this one really loves nature, so it's especially interesting - but what I didn't miss were the long stretches where nothing happens and Jack just muses on, and on, and on...

17. Dear Girls - Ali Wong
Biography / Humor - New

Funny with great insights into the stand-up comedy world, and keen, humorous observations, and hey, she mentions the wife of one of my friends in the book!  But wow - really, really dirty.

18. Still Foolin' 'Em - Billy Crystal  
Biography / Humor - Used

A little corny, but a surprisingly funny and personal memoir.  And boy, does Crystal know a lot about baseball.  I mean, a lot.

19. The Gift of Failure - Jessica Lahey 
 Parenting - Audio /Libby

 Let your kid fail, so they can learn on their own.  Simple advice that has changed my parenting style.  To non-parents, well, I know this sounds simple, like, you don't have to read a whole book to get it. But, ask any helicopter parent of our generation and they'll tell you how freadking hard it is to do.

20. The Happiest Days of our Lives - Wil Wheaton  
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby 

Nostalgic and humorous, and more moving than JUST A GEEK. Wheaton has aged well, from child stare to a spokesperson for nerd-dads in their 40s everywhere.

21. Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari  
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby 

Extremely humorous and still insightful examination of the modern dating scene that I thank god every day I'm not a part of. Would be ranked higher if I was actually on the dating scene and could relate to anything in the book.

22. The Icarus Deception - Seth Godin  
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby 

Make art.  No matter what you do.  Create.  Godin is convincing and concise in this sweet motivational book.

23. Purity - Jonathan Franzen 
Literature / Fiction - Used

Good characters, well written, a real pleasure to read, but stopped after 200 pages because hell, this story isn't going anywhere and there's 300 more pages to go! 200 good pages, but seriously, Franzen, The Great Gatsby is only 185 pages.  You're good, but you ain't no Fitzgerald.

24. Just a Geek - Wil Wheaton  
Biography - New

Wheaton writes about a time in his life - around 2001 - when he struggled as an actor, and with his Start Trek identity, launching his now-famous website (WilWheaton.net), and accepting himself as a leader of geek culture.  On a personal note, I briefly met him around that time, working for the talent agency that couldn't get him acting work.  Sorry, Wil.  Bought your book, though.  Hope it makes up for it.

25. Braving the Wilderness - Brené Brown
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

A quick dose of motivation and a plea to get off social media and have more face-to-face conversations. Sounds good, BrenĂ©!  But first, let me finish this post...

26. Brief Answers to the Big Questions  - Stephen Hawking  
Science - Audio / Libby

The questions are far too big, and answers not so brief, but still an enjoyable, intellectual, and even - at times - humorous read.  Nice work, Stephen, wherever you are. (Astrophysics joke that doesn't quite make sense...because NEITHER DOES ASTROPHYSICS.  Seriously.)

27. One More Thing: Stories and Other Stories - B.J. Novak 
Essays - Humor - Used

Stopped at 175. Humerous, witty essays.  Feels frontloaded though - the humor and wittiness begins to fade around page 120.  Still, that's 120 pages of good stuff.

28. Phil Gordon’s Little Blue Book - Phil Gordon
Poker - Used

Excellent poker tips from one of the most humble - and accomplished - players in the game.

29. Dancing Barefoot - Wil Wheaton 
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby

Another collection from the nerd-dad spokesman of Generation X/Y.  Still good, but three books by Wil Wheaton is my yearly limit.

30. A War of Gifts - Orson Scott Card  
Literature / Fiction - New

A fun, but quick, shallow dive into a few side characters at Battle School with Ender.  If right now you're thinking: "Who's Ender?  What's Battle School?" then this is not a book for you.)

31. This is Marketing - Seth Godin  
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby 

Godin is fun to listen to, and his concepts sound really great when you read them, but after I finish most of his books I can't remember a damn thing about his concepts, nor how to apply them to our own business.  So, points for style, but points off for lack of impact.

32. Coach - Michael Lewis
Business / Motivational - Library 

Short book about Lewis's high school baseball coach, and how old-school methods of discipline and intensity pay off in life.

33. Terrorism and War - Howard Zinn
History - Used

Brief examination of American imperialism examining possible reasons people despise us (see: when we drop bombs on their heads).

34. How Successful People Lead - John C. Maxwell
Business / Motivational - Used

Quick explanation on what makes a good leader, and how to become one. Got it.  Thanks John.

35. The Year of Less - Cait Flanders
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

Why do I keep reading self-help/motivational books?  Who knows. (If there's a book out there that helps people stop reading self-help books, I'll read it!)  This is a book more about addiction than living a simple life, but it somehow draws you in, even if you aren't addicted to alcohol and shopping, like the author.

36. BlacKkKlansman - Ron Stallworth
Biography - Used

Intriguing true story, but way too dry, and mired in police procedures. And because it's true, it lacks the drama of the film I liked so much.

37. Hold'em Wisdom for All Players - Daniel Negreanu
Poker - Used

Easy to read intro to basic poker strategy.  Really good for beginners, and a good refresher for everyone else.

38. Children of the Fleet - Orson Scott Card
 Literature / Fiction Audio / Libby

Yes, another Ender book. It all takes place after Ender saved the world in Ender's Game but before the world went to hell at the end of Shadow Puppets, if you're keeping track. The main character is a snooty kid that you don't want to root for - and it turns out you don't have to root for him because not much happens. In other words, this is the last book in the "Enderverse" I'll read for a while.

39. Raising Young Athletes - Jim Taylor
Parenting Library 

 Stopped at 100.  Some good theories and tips, but mostly warnings about not getting caught up in the "Youth Sports Industrial Complex," which seems scary, but he basically means, "You don't have to put your kid into so many sports even if other parents are doing it." Nice try, Jim. My kid is going to be a star!

40. The Telling Room - Michael Paterniti 
Literature / Fiction - Library

Stopped at 50.  Slightly amusing, but it felt like Paterniti couldn't decide between writing something humorous, investigative, or flippant, and seemed to error on the side of flippant.

41. You Are A Badass - Jen Sincero
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby

Self-help book with a few helpful tips (meditate, take deep breaths, focus on things you want to improve in your life) but ultimately disappointing as it doesn't really say that much.

42. Searching for God Knows What - Donald Miller  
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby

I've read a number of Miller's books, and usually enjoy his writing, but this one just isn't up to par. Stopped somewhere in the middle, when the semi-amusing ramblings about god became just ramblings.

43. Sanctuary - William Faulkner  
Literature / Fiction - Used

Stopped at 50.  Never read Faulkner before, but I'd heard the hype. After pages of long LONG sentences, rambling descriptions, experimental punctuation, and lack of clear characters, I was not only confused, I was done.

44. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k - Mark Manson  
Business / Motivational - Audio / Libby 

Stopped about 2/3 of the way through.  The author's voice is so damn confident, I was fooled into going along for a while...until 2/3 of the way though when I realized he still hadn't said anything.  Maybe all the secrets are in the last 1/3 of the book?  I'll never know.

45. Uncommon Type - Tom Hanks
Essays / Humor - Audio / Libby

Stopped about 1/3 of the way through, after I realized the stories aren't that good, and they're not actually about Hanks himself.

46. Believe Me - Eddie Izzard
Biography - Audio / Libby

Stopped about an hour in. Funny at first, but Izzard goes off on so many "footnotes" and tangents, it becomes extremely monotonous, very quickly.  Maybe that's just the audio book, though?

And...that's it.  (You're still here? Thanks for reading!)

And if you're looking for something to read, check out any books in the top 25 on that list that sound good, and dive in.

Next year, I plan to get a wider range of viewpoints, read more books by non-white and not-heterosexual authors, and less books by Wil Wheaton or with a character named Ender.  Seriously.

Accepting recommendations.  Especially if it's an audio book on Libby.

God bless Libby.

-ND

Friday, November 1, 2019

Milestones - 5 years, 9 months

Yes, it has been a while since I wrote in this blog.

Yes, they grow up fast.

And the other thing that happens when they start to do things by themselves, is you return to thinking about yourself again.  I'm a person?  I forgot about that.  I'm going to do a few things I like, that don't have anything to do with the kid, including not updating a blog about him...

-Suggested our lunch order and where to sit -  at Halal Guys, and then where to sit

-Added 35+27 in his head : I seriously don't know where he learned this, and I'm going to ask his teachers to slow down with the math lessons for a while, because really, how much math do you need as a kid?

-Memorized first song on piano - Treble clef (one hand) only, of course.  And this is assuming Twinkle Twinkle Little Star counts as a song (Actually, it counts as two songs: See "The ABC song"..)

-Swam the length of the pool - Small, backyard pool, of course.  Not an Olympic size.

and more...


Monday, February 4, 2019

The Few Books I Read in 2018 with Brief Thoughts on Each

I read 25 books last year.

A friend of mine without kids posted that she read over 70 books in the same time period, which made me feel pretty lazy.

Then I talked to a friend of mine with two kids. "TWENTY-FIVE FUCKING BOOKS?!? JESUS CHRIST, HOW DO YOU HAVE TIME TO READ SO MUCH!!?!"

So, now I feel alright about the number.

Quick summary of this list: it's mostly science fiction, memoirs, and poker books.

And, last year I reread a lot of my old favorites - mostly the Ender series by Orson Scott Card.*  I did this, because I discovered that he wrote a new sequel (A NEW SEQUEL!!) to Ender's Game called Ender in Exile.  More on that book later.

Also in 2018, I took some recommendations, so thanks for those, and keep them coming - especially if you're happy where your recommendation ended up on this list.

So, here's the list, ranked from best to worst, with a thought or two on each.

BOOKS READ IN 2018

1. Ender's Shadow - Orson Scott Card
Science Fiction
Reread

Follows the character of "Bean" through the events of Ender's Game. So if you haven't read Ender's Game, read that first. Shadow is slightly more emotional and intellectually interesting than Ender's Game, but both are classics and really deserve to be read.

2. Ender's Game - Orson Scott Card
Science Fiction
Reread

Still amazing after all these years. If you haven't read it, I envy that you get to take this journey for the first time. It's the story of an overachieving boy and his journey through battle school.  It's sort of like Harry Potter in space.  But like, better...way better than this description.

3. Speaker for the Dead - Orson Scott Card
Science Fiction
Reread

The original sequel to Ender's Game.  Speaker is a vivid meditation on what it could mean to encounter an alien race, and what that reveals about our own customs, religions, and communication.  Surprisingly deep stuff, and according to Card, this was the book he originally wanted to write - he only wrote Ender's Game to get to this part of the story.

4. The Disaster Artist - Greg Sestero and Tom Bissell
Novel / Memoir

Realistic and painfully hilarious account of misplaced passion and the allure of the Hollywood dream. It turns out, however, if you're really rich, it's possible to make a horrible movie that is unintentionally funny.

5. Ready Player One - Ernest Cline
Science Fiction
Reread

The first time I read it, I couldn't turn the pages fast enough to find out what happened. This time I sat back and enjoyed the nostalgic ride.  Way better than the movie.  Seriously.

6. Ender in Exile - Orson Scott Card
Science Fiction
Reread

The "new" sequel to Ender's Game throws Ender back into a political power struggle while on his way to a new planet.  Then at that planet, we get to see the boy hero adapt to become the governer of a colony.  Surprisingly good, and worth a read if you're a fan of the Ender-verse.  And yes, I said "Ender-verse."  That's what it's called!

7. Flight of the Silvers - Daniel Price
Science Fiction

Addictive sci-fi read, though a little confusing.  Basically it's teenagers who are X-men mutants with powers over time - minutes, seconds, house - forwards and backwards...as well as something to do with an alternate reality...or something.  Intriguing!

8. Songbook - Nick Hornby
Memoir / Think Pieces

Essays detailing his thoughts about his favorite songs, the lyrics, as well as self-reflecting by commenting on his OWN THOUGHTS ON HIS THOUGHTS about those songs.

9. Molly's Game - Molly Bloom
Memoir / Poker

More about succeeding in business and dealing with questionable characters than it is about poker, but still a page turner. Spoiler: Tobey Maguire is an asshole.

10. Blue Like Jazz - Donald Miller
Memoir / Religion

Surprisingly honest ramblings about a Christian twenty-something struggling with the church and modern day Christianity.

11. Every Hand Revealed - Gus Hansen
Poker

Hansen explains his decisions behind every hand he plays in a tournament.  You really have to like poker, because this is a poker book - but probably the best I've ever read.  It's like watching a poker tournament from the inside of a pro's mind.

12. What We Talk About When We Talk About God - Rob Bell
Religion

Interesting thoughts from an open Christian perspective.  Also, I got this book at The Dollar Tree, so my expectations were very, very low.

13. Eat that Frog! 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done  - Brian Tracy
Business

Quick read with a lot of good ideas on how to stay focused and get things done. Incidentally, none of these ideas include making lists of books you've read.  So, it seems I have learned nothing.

14. The Name of the Wind - Patrick Rothfuss
Science Fiction

An addictive read that starts off strong, but veers off course. A little over halfway through the book, the main character leaves the interesting action in his town and LITERALLY wanders off to chase dragons. He returns home 300 pages later and resolves a few things quickly, but leaves plenty of questions for the sequel...

The questions I have, after finishing it's 700+ pages, are as such: Why such a quick ending? Why do fantasy books seem like they take place in the cleanest middle ages of all time? And how can people do magic? Is it because they don't understand science? Should we go back to not understanding science as well, so we can become magicians?

15. I Wear the Black Hat - Chuck Klosterman
Memoir / Think Pieces

Meandering, thoughts that are thoughtful at times, and at other times, the thoughts are a bit repetitive thoughts...but interesting.

16. Moneymaker: How an Amateur Poker Player Turned $40 into $2.5 Million at the World Series of Poker - Chris Moneymaker w/ Daniel Paisner
Poker

Fun read that really captures the innocence and excitement of a guy who had never played a live poker tournament, and yet with a lot of patience, skill, and a little luck (especially on two big hands) is able to win the largest poker tournament in the world - the WSOP (World Series of Poker)

17. In the Heart of the World: Thoughts, Stories, and Prayers - Mother Teresa
Religion

Very short book about kindness and generosity.  A little too short, as it leaves you wanting things explained a little more.

18. 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 - Thomas Phelan
Parenting

Interesting techniques on discipline which basically amounts to giving your kids two warnings before you get to a punishment.  Will probably try it out soon...

19. Shadow of the Hegemon - Orson Scott Card
Science Fiction
Reread

Sequel to Ender's Shadow. Not quite as good as I remember.  Vow to stop rereading the "Shadow" series now.

20. I Drink for a Reason - David Cross
Comedy

Cross is a hit-or-miss comedian, and his book is basically the same, with a little too many misses.

21. Scream Free Parenting - Hal Runkel
Parenting

Calm yourself first. Teach kids the actions have consequences, but do it calmly. Sounds easy enough.  Should probably try that soon...

22. Futuristic Violence and Fancy Suits - David Wong
Science Fiction
Partial Read

Opens strong, with a lot of humor and clever dialog. Then a million things happen, and the humor seems to go away. Read to page 150, hoping the humor and fun would come back. It did not.

23. The Dip - Seth Godin
Business

Quick read out how to know when to quit anything (a project, a job, etc). Not sure I learned when to quit anything, but since it was such a short book, I wanted to prove to the author I wouldn't quit...

24. You Cannot Be Serious - John McEnroe and James Kaplan
Memoir/Sports

Poor writing, way too much name-dropping, but if you like tennis, it's still an interesting read.

25. The Dog of the South - Charles Portis
Novel

Alleged literary masterpiece / classic humor novel is actually just a book with a meandering plot with rambling sentences that are are almost interesting but are really just meandering and repetitive, like this one...

And...

That's it!

And in 2019, I vow to read more classic literature, novels, and maybe even history.

And less Orson Scott Card.

Send your recommendations!

Seriously.

-N.D.

*If you're not familiar with the Ender's Game series/shadow series, boy, you're in for a treat. And, I firmly believe, you should read the series in the following order:

Ender's Game
Ender's Shadow
Ender in Exile
Speaker for the Dead
Shadow Puppets 
Children of the Fleet
Xenocide

And skip the rest.  Seriously.